Sometimes words can hurt, people can criticize you so hard as if they want to ruin you, people can make you feel silly, lazy, irresponsible and lost, and many negative feelings can fill your heart. You can be frustrated sometimes from their words, you can think for some time that you are a loser, although you know you aren’t.
But sometimes words can be weapons, can be powerful tools to encourage you to do great achievements, to feel like you are a hero, to feel you are so strong to face any obstacle in your way.
But tell me one thing why do you have to hear the words of people?
Why is too important for some people?
Why to wait for someone to manage your own life?
Why people became so involved in others lives like that?
Today, people waste most of their time in critizing others, the way they dress, the way they speak, the way they live, the way they think. They make life so complicated.
Let me give you an example, what’s the criteria of evaluating a respectful girl?
Some say she must be a good person from inside, she must be well brought up, and others say she must be veiled, and others critize both, so if she isn’t veiled they say look to the way she dresses, the clothes are so tight, and if she got veiled, they start to say no veiled girl should wear these clothes, as they are also tight, they consider her to become an angel , to wear loose clothes and don’t care if this decision was to hard to take, as she wants to keep her style as before.
These people seem to wait for any mistake to happen, for anything to criticize, it’s their real pleaseaure, they expect from the girl to be an angel, they don’t know how every girl may seem to be like from deep inside, from suddenly changing her style and feeling strange.
And they start saying, oh see, is this considered to be a veil? And watch out if she took the veil off, oh, the wonderful opportunity for them to criticize more and more, expressing that she is hesitated, irresponsible….etc.
But why don’t they really care for the feelings of the girl? Why don’t they think that she was doing her best to do something good? Why don’t they wish for her to come back to it?
And many many examples found in society which show that their words must mean nothing to you, it won’t change ur destiny, and it won’t change your beliefs and perceptions.
So why do you must listen to their words?
Why we call this as it’s our customs and traditions” caring for people’s words”?
“People don’t have to like everything you make, don’t have to agree on every decision that you take, you have to be the master of your own fate”.
Roura:)
But sometimes words can be weapons, can be powerful tools to encourage you to do great achievements, to feel like you are a hero, to feel you are so strong to face any obstacle in your way.
But tell me one thing why do you have to hear the words of people?
Why is too important for some people?
Why to wait for someone to manage your own life?
Why people became so involved in others lives like that?
Today, people waste most of their time in critizing others, the way they dress, the way they speak, the way they live, the way they think. They make life so complicated.
Let me give you an example, what’s the criteria of evaluating a respectful girl?
Some say she must be a good person from inside, she must be well brought up, and others say she must be veiled, and others critize both, so if she isn’t veiled they say look to the way she dresses, the clothes are so tight, and if she got veiled, they start to say no veiled girl should wear these clothes, as they are also tight, they consider her to become an angel , to wear loose clothes and don’t care if this decision was to hard to take, as she wants to keep her style as before.
These people seem to wait for any mistake to happen, for anything to criticize, it’s their real pleaseaure, they expect from the girl to be an angel, they don’t know how every girl may seem to be like from deep inside, from suddenly changing her style and feeling strange.
And they start saying, oh see, is this considered to be a veil? And watch out if she took the veil off, oh, the wonderful opportunity for them to criticize more and more, expressing that she is hesitated, irresponsible….etc.
But why don’t they really care for the feelings of the girl? Why don’t they think that she was doing her best to do something good? Why don’t they wish for her to come back to it?
And many many examples found in society which show that their words must mean nothing to you, it won’t change ur destiny, and it won’t change your beliefs and perceptions.
So why do you must listen to their words?
Why we call this as it’s our customs and traditions” caring for people’s words”?
“People don’t have to like everything you make, don’t have to agree on every decision that you take, you have to be the master of your own fate”.
Roura:)
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