Life is full of many events; some can be good and joyful and others can be bad and frustrating. but that's life, it always changes, it can't be always at the same state. but the fact is that we are the ones who have the choice; the choice to live a happy, joyful life, and the choice to live the worst life ever.
I mean, why do we always look to the bad side of everything?
why don't we look to the bright side of the story?
I know when there are times, these statements become so difficult things to happen, but i do believe that we screw everything by our own selves.
Let's take a simple example; i know a girl who had a dream to become a famous writer and publish her own books and magazines, this girl didn't like routine work, she used her imagination in everything she was doing, she always had that insisting dream, that insisting wish "You can be a good writer", maybe she isn't professional, but atleast she has the talent; the talent in expressing herself by writting, by showing her ideas and beliefs through writting.
That girl used always to postpone her wish, and sometimes she forgets it from frustration, like; ( who will read my writting?, who cares about this?) and many frustrating words that hold her back from achieveing her dream, this frustration made her sometimes be pessimistic to the extent that she forgot writting or that she was willing to forget intentionally by her own self because she lost hope and beacme restless.
She gave herself lots of excuses that hold her back, like; i am not professional, i am not free, i don't have enough time to think of creative ideas and topics to write about, i just write my diaries,...etc . Although deep inside her she knew she could do it, she knew she could make it right, she knew she was the only one she has to blame beacuse she is giving up her dream so easily. she knew how she really loved writting so much and how she really can't stop dreaming that dream of being a writer. but what she has to do is to work hard and be more creative.
And finally, she discovered that dreams are not always easy to achieve unless we insist on holding up to them; so she decided to encourage herself by positive words and positive beleifs, like: " I CAN DO IT", WHEN THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY".
Finally, i want to say that positive words are the real motivators for making us achieve our dreams., for making us be more optimistic in life, and for making us belive in our ownselves and our own capabilities. maybe sometimes we don't know how our simple skill can affect others around us, and sometimes we don't know the real value of ourselves against others.
A simple advice: Just always look to the bright side of every situation, stop blaming circumstances, and judging all people around you and leaving yourself. Be optimistic, smile to the world and the world will smile to you, maybe not right now, not at that moment, but it can smile so soon. Begin with a simple step, and the other steps will gradually follow it.
And if you want to be more positive, believe in this quote; "use your talent ( Everybody has one) in anyway you can.Don't keep it for yourself like a miser, spend it like a millionaire" Lucy Macdonald
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