"Jenny" was a smart, sweet girl, so friendly and nice, but she had a big problem, that she always critisizes everyone around her as if she is the perfect one in the whole world. she critisizes people's appearance, their looks, their clothes, their way of talking even,...etc. she analysizes everything happens, as if she is an angel and never makes a mistake.
So she was gossiping about a friend called "Sandra"; about how she spoiled her x-boy friend, she used to do everything he tells her, believe him in everything, can cancel anything just to be beside him, to the extent that made him ignore her feelings, ignore her totally and hang out with other friends. Jenny was expressing how weak was Sandra, and how she humilated herself alot just to please him.
Until Sandra, heard about this from a common friend of them, and she was so hurt, and she went to Jenny and discussed this with her. she told Jenny, you know nothing about "Love", about how to sacrifice anything for someone, about how to feel that you are flying in the sky, about feeling joy and happiness every second you are around your beloved. And what you don't know most is; how you get hurt at the end, from the most important you thought he was, how you feel deeply broken because you thought for once that he was the perfect one for you.
Jenny was so embrassed from herself, felt so sorry for Sandra, felt she was so evil to gossip about someone, and felt that she was the cause of hurting sandra twice not only once( first by her x-boyfriend, and and second by her).
Sandra said to Jenny; why people always critisize others and feel their ownselves?, like you Jenny " don't you remeber Adam your first love at college, don't u rememeber this amazing love story everyone talked about at college? don't u remeber how naiive u were at this relation?, don't u remeber how many people warned you from him? and finally don't u remeber how he left u and went to another girl?
And after all u are gossiping about me?, y Jenny?, yyyy?
This is not the story of Sandra and Jenny only, it's the story of everyone now, it's us, it's our daily life. sometimes, every one of us takes the role of the Judgeman, give himself/herself the right to judge everyone, critisize him, analyize his character, as if we r 100% perfect. we don't give excuses to others. we don't put ourselves in their shoes. we just want to have that "Angel Image".
life is so tough, but people make it tougher and tougher, they don't know how a simple word can affect others around them, how it can change their lives, how it can hurt them or encourage them and make them more stronger.
Jenny was so embrassed from herself, felt so sorry for Sandra, felt she was so evil to gossip about someone, and felt that she was the cause of hurting sandra twice not only once( first by her x-boyfriend, and and second by her).
Sandra said to Jenny; why people always critisize others and feel their ownselves?, like you Jenny " don't you remeber Adam your first love at college, don't u rememeber this amazing love story everyone talked about at college? don't u remeber how naiive u were at this relation?, don't u remeber how many people warned you from him? and finally don't u remeber how he left u and went to another girl?
And after all u are gossiping about me?, y Jenny?, yyyy?
This is not the story of Sandra and Jenny only, it's the story of everyone now, it's us, it's our daily life. sometimes, every one of us takes the role of the Judgeman, give himself/herself the right to judge everyone, critisize him, analyize his character, as if we r 100% perfect. we don't give excuses to others. we don't put ourselves in their shoes. we just want to have that "Angel Image".
life is so tough, but people make it tougher and tougher, they don't know how a simple word can affect others around them, how it can change their lives, how it can hurt them or encourage them and make them more stronger.
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